Ship anon, I agree with you, but I will get skinned alive if I post your ask. Sorry.
the entire thing is set AFTER the events of frozen so the only chemistry anna and hans will have is anna wanting to punch the little fucker in the face again
Can we have Kristoff joining in?
And then Elsa?
And then Anna once more for good measure?
Well, I haven’t had to kill any of them, so no.
1000% fake it ‘til you make it, anon. I’m still faking it. Basically I just force myself to make small talk and be open, even if I really just want to be by myself. Of course, I have the added benefit of having spent most of my life having to hide things from people (abuse, addiction, self-hatred, you name it), so I’m pretty practiced at playing the cool, confident extrovert at this point. Nowadays I just force myself to put everyone else’s opinions out of my mind and go out and do what has to be done. One of the most crippling things I’ve had to deal with in the past is worrying that everyone is staring and me and judging me. Doing some radical acceptance and forcibly pushing them aside can be a good start towards getting your faux extrovert on.
That said, please remember that there is NOTHING wrong with being shy or naturally introverted. Lots of people are, and it’s not a moral or personal failing. If you want to make conversation, just ask people about themselves and try to find common ground. But you don’t have to be a social butterfly in order to have a fulfilling life. It’s perfectly okay to prefer small groups to parties and staying in to going out. :)
Safe or not, that’s just really ill-advised, anon. It’s not gonna stay frozen nearly long enough to be useful.
Is that even still a thing?
I don’t always understand them either.
Especially those really weird smut anons I got awhile back.
It’s a world of hopes and a world of
GO TO HELL ANON
…I hope tonight isn’t like pee night on my blog. o.o Same advice as the other anon — just talk to him and tell him if you’re worried/feel weird, but if he doesn’t seem to care, hey, just roll with it. It’s amazing how many things we get self-conscious and weirded out over during sex that our partners really don’t mind or care about in the long run.
I mean, urine is technically a sterile solution, but yeah, that’s a little weird. I’d just talk to him about what happened the last time and tell him about your concerns. A big part of being in a committed relationship (especially if you’re married) is being able to be open about sexual stuff. If you’re not into it, tell him to save it for the bathroom.
Sounds like a good idea — this is just not working for me right now (and I’m pretty sure I’ve got Hans completely wrong and OOC and have to rewrite the entire first section of the chapter).
So sleepover is officially on. Ask me whatever. You may want to blacklist the following:
I should probably come up with a general answer tag and/or something for sleepovers, but whatever.
Let it be shit, just get it out. You don’t have to put it up right now. Write it because you need to write it - because you clearly WANT to write it. Then give it a day or two. Edit. Cut. Rewrite. It’ll be fine. :)
My brain’s actually fighting me pretty badly with this right now, like, “Okay, no. You do not have the focus or the energy to grapple with this at this particular moment. Take a break and come back, because you’re pretty much writing this at creative gunpoint right now and it’s really starting to show.”
Sigh. I think I should probably be listening to my brain.
That’s what I’m here for, anon. Ask away. ♥